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 Why Do We Follow What We Think Is Popular?

Imagine you’re sitting at lunch, and everyone around you is talking about the latest song, the coolest clothes, or the newest app. Suddenly, you feel a strong pull to check it out, too. But why do we feel this way? Why do we often follow what we think is popular, even if it’s not something we’re really into? In this article, we’ll explore why following trends and popular things is so tempting, especially for young people.

 1. The Power of Social Influence

Humans are social creatures, which means we often look to others to guide our behavior. This is known as social influence. Psychologists explain that we tend to follow others to fit in, especially when we’re in situations where we feel uncertain or uncomfortable. When we see many people liking something or talking about it, we assume it must be good or interesting. For pre-teens and teens, this desire to fit in is even stronger as you’re discovering your identity and forming social groups (Cialdini, 2007).

Social influence works in two main ways:

  • Normative Influence: This is when we follow others because we want to be accepted. We wear what’s “in style” or talk about the same things so we don’t feel left out.
  • Informational Influence: This is when we believe that others know something we don’t. If everyone in your class starts listening to a new band, you might assume that it’s worth listening to because so many people like it.

 2. The Role of the Brain

Did you know your brain also has a role in why we follow what’s popular? The prefrontal cortex, which is the part of the brain responsible for decision-making and understanding social situations, is still developing during your pre-teen years. Because of this, young people are more likely to be influenced by what they see around them (Steinberg, 2013).

In fact, studies show that when people experience social acceptance or positive feedback from others, the brain releases a chemical called dopamine (Sherman et al., 2016). Dopamine is often called the “feel-good” hormone because it makes us feel happy and rewarded. This can make following trends or doing what others do even more appealing, as we get that rewarding feeling from being included.

 3. Social Media and Trends

Social media plays a big role in what we think is popular today. Platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat constantly show us the latest trends in fashion, music, and even behaviors. Algorithms on these platforms are designed to keep us engaged by showing us what’s popular or “viral.” Because we see so many people doing the same challenges, wearing similar outfits, or using the same slang, we might feel pressured to follow along.

Researchers have found that people tend to feel more confident in their choices when they believe others are making the same choices (Bond & Smith, 1996). This is called the bandwagon effect. On social media, when we see thousands of people liking, sharing, or commenting on something, we assume it’s worth paying attention to and are more likely to join in, even if we might not actually like it ourselves.

 4. Identity and Self-Expression

As pre-teens, you’re discovering who you are and how you want to be seen by others. Trying out trends is one way of exploring your identity. When we dress a certain way or listen to certain music, we’re also expressing our values and interests. Following popular trends can sometimes make it easier to connect with others who share similar interests, helping us feel like we belong to a group (Erikson, 1968).

However, there’s also a downside to this. If we focus too much on what others think is cool or popular, we might end up doing things just to fit in rather than because we truly enjoy them. Remember that it’s okay to be different and to like things that aren’t popular, too.

 5. Finding a Balance

While it’s natural to be influenced by what’s popular, it’s also important to find a balance. Here are some tips to help you stay true to yourself while navigating trends:

  • Ask yourself why: Before following a trend, ask yourself if it’s something you really like or if you’re just following it to fit in.
  • Experiment with different styles: It’s okay to try out different things and figure out what you like. You might find that you enjoy some trends and dislike others.
  • Stay open-minded: Being aware of trends can be fun, but remember that you don’t have to follow every trend to feel accepted or confident.

Following popular trends is something we all do at times, especially as we’re figuring out who we are. But by learning to think about why we’re drawn to certain trends, we can make more confident choices about what we really like. Trends come and go, but your unique personality and interests are what make you truly stand out.

This article has been written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier has over 25 years of experience in the social work field and is based in London Kentucky through Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health, LLC. Mr. Collier may be reached by phone at (606) 657–0532 extension 101 or by email at [email protected].

 References

  • Bond, R., & Smith, P. B. (1996). Culture and conformity: A meta-analysis of studies using Asch’s (1952b, 1956) line judgment task. Psychological Bulletin, 119(1), 111–137.
  • Cialdini, R. B. (2007). Influence: The psychology of persuasion. Harper Business.
  • Erikson, E. H. (1968). Identity: Youth and crisis. W. W. Norton & Company.
  • Sherman, L. E., Payton, A. A., Hernandez, L. M., Greenfield, P. M., & Dapretto, M. (2016). The Power of the Like in Adolescence: Effects of Peer Influence on Neural and Behavioral Responses to Social Media. Psychological Science, 27(7), 1027-1035.
  • Steinberg, L. (2013). Age of Opportunity: Lessons from the New Science of Adolescence. Houghton Mifflin
Holiday Stress: Understanding Causes and Effective Coping Strategies

As the holiday season approaches, many people find themselves experiencing elevated levels of stress. Despite the season’s emphasis on joy and celebration, the holidays can bring unique stressors that impact mental well-being. From financial pressures and social obligations to family dynamics and the expectation of cheer, holiday stress is a prevalent issue. Understanding these sources of stress and adopting effective coping strategies can help individuals navigate the season with resilience.

Causes of Holiday Stress

  1. Financial Pressure
    One of the primary sources of holiday stress is financial strain. A survey by the American Psychological Association (APA) found that money is a top stressor during the holidays, as individuals feel pressured to spend on gifts, decorations, and travel (APA, 2022). The National Retail Federation reports that the average American consumer spends over $1,000 on holiday expenses, which can lead to financial worry, especially for those on a tight budget (NRF, 2022).
  2. Social and Family Obligations
    Family gatherings and social events increase during the holiday season, and while these can be enjoyable, they also bring stress. Family dynamics, particularly in cases of estrangement or unresolved conflicts, can lead to tension and anxiety (Mayo Clinic, 2023). Additionally, individuals may feel pressured to attend numerous gatherings, which can become overwhelming and emotionally exhausting.
  3. High Expectations and Pressure to Feel Happy
    The holiday season is often portrayed in media as a time of happiness and perfection. This expectation can lead individuals to feel inadequate or stressed if their experiences do not align with these ideals (Kocovski et al., 2021). This pressure to appear cheerful and festive, even when one does not feel that way, can amplify feelings of isolation or sadness.
  4. Disrupted Routines and Lack of Self-Care
    The holiday season can disrupt normal routines, affecting sleep, diet, and exercise patterns. Research shows that routine disruptions can lead to emotional imbalance, which can exacerbate stress levels (Kühn et al., 2022). Many people also neglect self-care during this time, prioritizing holiday tasks over personal well-being.

Effective Coping Strategies for Holiday Stress

  1. Set Realistic Expectations
    Adjusting expectations around the holidays can help reduce stress. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on enjoying moments as they come. Studies have shown that setting realistic, attainable goals for the holidays can improve overall well-being (Lyubomirsky & Layous, 2013). Consider scaling back holiday plans to avoid overextending yourself financially and emotionally.
  2. Create a Budget and Stick to It
    Developing a realistic budget for holiday expenses and adhering to it can alleviate financial stress. A 2020 study found that individuals who budgeted for the holidays reported significantly less financial anxiety than those who did not (Scholz et al., 2020). Planning gift purchases in advance and setting spending limits can prevent financial strain.
  3. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
    Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and deep breathing exercises, are effective ways to reduce stress. Research has shown that mindfulness can decrease holiday-related stress by improving emotional regulation and reducing rumination (Goldstein et al., 2021). Taking time to relax and focus on the present moment can foster resilience and help individuals cope with holiday pressures.
  4. Prioritize Self-Care and Maintain Healthy Routines
    Maintaining regular sleep, exercise, and diet routines can have a profound impact on managing holiday stress. A study from the American Psychological Association indicates that engaging in physical activity and prioritizing healthy sleep patterns help individuals better cope with seasonal stress (APA, 2022). Scheduling personal time for self-care activities, such as reading or walking, can help balance holiday obligations with personal needs.
  5. Limit Social Media Use
    Social media can exacerbate holiday stress by exposing individuals to idealized portrayals of others’ experiences. Limiting social media use can help reduce feelings of inadequacy and prevent comparison-based stress. A study found that reduced social media engagement over the holidays led to higher levels of self-esteem and decreased feelings of stress (Twenge et al., 2019).

Seeking Support

For those struggling with holiday stress, reaching out to friends, family, or a mental health professional can be beneficial. Studies show that social support can significantly reduce stress and improve mental well-being (Cohen & Wills, 1985). Talking openly about holiday-related stress with loved ones or seeking therapy can provide emotional relief and help develop coping skills.

Conclusion

The holiday season brings unique challenges, from financial strain to social pressures. However, by setting realistic expectations, practicing self-care, and employing mindfulness techniques, individuals can mitigate these stressors and enjoy a more peaceful holiday season. For those who continue to struggle, seeking support from friends, family, or mental health professionals can provide essential relief. Managing holiday stress effectively is key to fostering a healthier, happier season.

This article was written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier is a seasoned clinical social worker with over 25 years of experience, serving the London and Richmond, Kentucky areas through Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health, LLC. Known for his compassionate approach and commitment to quality care, Mr. Collier supports individuals and families with a focus on mental health and well-being. He may be reached by phone at (606) 657–0532, extension 101, or by email at [email protected].

References

  • American Psychological Association. (2022). Stress in America: Coping with holiday stress. APA.
  • Cohen, S., & Wills, T. A. (1985). Stress, social support, and the buffering hypothesis. Psychological Bulletin, 98(2), 310–357.
  • Goldstein, J., et al. (2021). Mindfulness interventions and stress reduction: The role of emotional regulation. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 77(5), 1093–1105.
  • Kocovski, N. L., et al. (2021). Social pressure and the holiday effect: A study on societal expectations and holiday-related stress. Social Psychology Quarterly, 84(4), 325–338.
  • Kühn, S., et al. (2022). Routine disruption and emotional imbalance: Implications for holiday-related stress. Emotion, 22(4), 675–683.
  • Lyubomirsky, S., & Layous, K. (2013). How do simple positive activities increase well-being? Current Directions in Psychological Science, 22(1), 57–62.
  • Mayo Clinic. (2023). Stress management: Handling holiday stress. Mayo Clinic.
  • National Retail Federation. (2022). Holiday shopping trends and consumer spending. NRF.
  • Scholz, J. K., et al. (2020). Financial planning and budgeting for seasonal expenses: Reducing anxiety and stress. Financial Counseling and Planning Journal, 31(2), 101–118.
  • Twenge, J. M., et al. (2019). Social media use and holiday stress: The role of online comparisons in shaping holiday experiences. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 22(7), 427–433.

This article provides a comprehensive overview of the causes and coping strategies for holiday-related stress, offering readers evidence-based insights for a healthier holiday season.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder in Soldiers: Understanding, Effects, and Treatment

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that has long affected soldiers and military personnel, often impacting their lives in profound ways. According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, up to 20% of veterans who served in Iraq and Afghanistan experience PTSD, underscoring the prevalence of this condition among soldiers who endure the harsh realities of combat and warfare. This article explores the causes, symptoms, and effects of PTSD in soldiers, examines various treatment options, and discusses emerging approaches to care.

Causes of PTSD in Soldiers

PTSD is generally triggered by exposure to traumatic events. For soldiers, combat is a primary source of trauma, involving life-threatening situations, witnessing injury or death, and enduring extreme physical and emotional stress. Studies have found that prolonged and repeated exposure to combat conditions increases the risk of PTSD, particularly if soldiers are subjected to high levels of intensity and frequency of traumatic events (American Psychological Association, 2020). Further risk factors include military rank, training, and support systems, with enlisted personnel and those lacking robust support networks being more vulnerable (Gradus, 2023).

The severity of PTSD symptoms often varies based on the intensity and nature of the traumatic events experienced. For instance, individuals who encounter close combat situations or who witness the death of comrades are more likely to develop severe PTSD symptoms (Hoge et al., 2004).

Symptoms of PTSD in Soldiers

PTSD symptoms are generally grouped into four categories:

  1. Intrusive Thoughts: Soldiers with PTSD often experience unwanted, distressing memories or flashbacks of traumatic events, causing them to relive the traumatic moment repeatedly.
  2. Avoidance: Avoiding situations, people, or places that remind the individual of the trauma is a common coping mechanism. Soldiers might withdraw from social settings or avoid seeking help.
  3. Negative Changes in Thought and Mood: Symptoms may include persistent negative emotions, distorted beliefs about oneself or others, and a feeling of detachment from family and friends.
  4. Hyperarousal and Reactivity: PTSD often causes soldiers to experience heightened anxiety, irritability, or hypervigilance. They may have difficulty sleeping and feel constantly on edge (National Institute of Mental Health, 2021).

In military contexts, PTSD can lead to significant challenges in social and family relationships, making reintegration into civilian life difficult. Soldiers may experience guilt over actions taken or not taken in combat, known as moral injury, which exacerbates the symptoms of PTSD (Litz et al., 2009).

Effects of PTSD on Soldiers’ Lives

PTSD can have a severe impact on veterans’ physical, mental, and emotional well-being, with potential long-term consequences that affect not only the individual but also their families and communities. Some of the major effects include:

  • Depression and Anxiety: Soldiers with PTSD often experience comorbid depression and anxiety, which can further complicate their recovery. The stress and trauma they face in combat environments have lasting effects that increase susceptibility to these conditions.
  • Substance Abuse: To cope with symptoms, many veterans turn to alcohol or drugs, which often results in dependency issues. Research has shown that PTSD and substance use disorders are closely linked in military populations, with soldiers attempting to self-medicate to alleviate PTSD symptoms (Seal et al., 2011).
  • Suicidal Ideation and Attempts: PTSD is a significant risk factor for suicide among veterans, with some studies indicating that the risk of suicide is higher among those with PTSD than the general population (Kang et al., 2015).
  • Difficulties in Employment and Social Reintegration: Veterans with PTSD may struggle to find and maintain stable employment due to symptoms such as hyperarousal, anxiety, and avoidance, impacting their social and economic well-being. Reintegration challenges, compounded by stigmatization of mental health issues, further isolate veterans from support systems that could aid in their recovery.

Treatment Options for PTSD in Soldiers

A wide range of treatment options is available for soldiers with PTSD. The goal of these treatments is not only to alleviate symptoms but to enable veterans to lead fulfilling lives after service. Treatments can be broadly categorized into:

  1. Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy, particularly Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), are among the most effective treatments for PTSD. CBT helps patients process and alter their trauma-related thoughts and behaviors, while EMDR helps in processing traumatic memories by stimulating the brain’s natural healing process (Watkins et al., 2018).
  2. Pharmacotherapy: Antidepressants like selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly prescribed for PTSD, as they help manage symptoms of anxiety and depression. Medication, however, is often used alongside psychotherapy rather than as a standalone treatment (VA/DoD Clinical Practice Guideline, 2017).
  3. Group Therapy and Support Groups: These provide veterans with a community that understands their experiences, fostering a support system that can help them cope with the effects of trauma. Research indicates that group therapy is particularly beneficial for soldiers, as it promotes shared understanding and mutual support (Browne et al., 2016).
  4. Emerging Treatments: New therapies, such as virtual reality exposure therapy (VRET) and MDMA-assisted psychotherapy, have shown promising results. VRET immerses patients in a controlled, simulated environment to help them confront and process traumatic experiences. MDMA-assisted therapy, under clinical investigation, has demonstrated significant reductions in PTSD symptoms in early trials (Mithoefer et al., 2018).

Challenges in Addressing PTSD in Military Contexts

Despite available treatments, several challenges remain in addressing PTSD among soldiers. A significant barrier is stigma—many military personnel fear seeking help for PTSD due to concerns about appearing weak or unfit for duty. Additionally, the military structure can sometimes be resistant to mental health care initiatives, emphasizing resilience and self-reliance over seeking assistance. Efforts are ongoing to destigmatize PTSD and encourage open discussions about mental health in military settings (Hoge et al., 2004).

Accessibility of mental health services is another issue. Many veterans live in rural areas with limited access to specialized PTSD treatments. Telemedicine has been identified as a potential solution, offering remote therapy sessions that improve access for veterans in underserved areas (Rosen et al., 2017).

Conclusion

PTSD remains a significant mental health concern for soldiers, with far-reaching impacts on individuals, families, and communities. The military context poses unique challenges for both the onset and treatment of PTSD, underscoring the need for continued research, awareness, and innovation in treatment options. By addressing stigma and improving access to mental health care, society can better support veterans in managing PTSD and lead them toward healthier, more fulfilling lives post-service.

This article was written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier has over 25 years of experience in the Social Work field. He currently serves as the Executive Director and Outpatient provider for Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health based out of London Kentucky. He may be reached at (606) 657-0532 extension 101 or by email at [email protected]

References

  • American Psychological Association. (2020). PTSD and the Military. Retrieved from APA.org.
  • Gradus, J. (2023). PTSD in Military Veterans. VA National Center for PTSD. Retrieved from PTSD.va.gov.
  • Hoge, C. W., et al. (2004). Combat Duty in Iraq and Afghanistan, Mental Health Problems, and Barriers to Care. The New England Journal of Medicine, 351(1), 13-22.
  • Kang, H. K., et al. (2015). Association of PTSD with increased suicide risk among veterans. Journal of Military Medicine, 180(9), 982-989.
  • Litz, B. T., et al. (2009). Moral injury and moral repair in war veterans: A preliminary model and intervention strategy. Clinical Psychology Review, 29(8), 695-706.
  • Mithoefer, M. C., et al. (2018). MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD: A breakthrough therapy. Journal of Psychopharmacology, 32(1), 4-12.
  • National Institute of Mental Health. (2021). Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Retrieved from NIMH.nih.gov.
  • Rosen, C. S., et al. (2017). Telemedicine for PTSD: A review of clinical evidence and practice. Telemedicine and e-Health, 23(3), 192-202.
  • Seal, K. H., et al. (2011). Substance use disorders in Iraq and Afghanistan veterans. Journal of Addiction Medicine, 5(1), 5-10.
  • VA/DoD Clinical Practice Guideline. (2017). Management of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Acute Stress Reaction. Department of Veterans Affairs.
Understanding PTSD: A Quick Overview

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition triggered by experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. People with PTSD may relive the trauma through flashbacks or nightmares, experience severe anxiety, and have uncontrollable thoughts about the event. Common symptoms include, but may not be limited to:

  • Re-experiencing: Flashbacks or distressing memories
  • Avoidance: Steering clear of reminders of the trauma
  • Hyperarousal: Constantly feeling on edge or easily startled
  • Negative mood changes: Guilt, detachment, or a feeling of hopelessness

PTSD affects people differently and can develop immediately after a trauma or months—even years—later. Treatment options, such as therapy and medication, are highly effective in managing symptoms. If you or someone you know may be struggling with PTSD, reaching out for support is a crucial step toward healing.

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