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The Mind’s Trestle Board

This Blog was originally designed for John Collier. It was for him to express things that would cross his mind daily. These thoughts arose while he was working with individuals and families. Yet, as time went on, John decided that he would start writing articles on topics related to those ideas. These primarily are related to behavioral health. Others are of personal or community related topics.

What Does It Mean for a Husband to Love and Lead His Wife?
In the biblical narrative, husbands are called to lead with love, embodying …
What Does It Mean to Submit to Your Husband?
The idea of a wife 'submitting' to her husband has been misunderstood, …
The Benefits of Cuddling: Why Human Touch Matters
In today's fast-paced world, cuddling emerges as a simple yet powerful practice …
When the Truth Keeps Unfolding: Coping with the Discovery That Your Ex Cheated More Than You Realized
Discovering infidelity can be a devastating emotional experience, but the real pain …
A Woman Can Feel Alone in a House Full of Her Husband and Children
Feeling emotionally alone in a bustling household, many women carry an unseen …
A Man Can Feel Alone in a House Full of His Wife and Children
At first glance, a man surrounded by his wife and children appears …
Filing for Divorce When You Don’t Want To
Divorce is a profoundly complex experience, often rooted in a partner's reluctant …
When Love Stays After Betrayal: The Difficult Path of the Faithful Partner
Infidelity is one of the most painful experiences a person can endure …
Staying on the Same Page as Parents: Why Unity Matters in Raising Children
Introduction Parenting is one of the most rewarding—and challenging—responsibilities a person can …
How Couples Can Avoid Pushing Each Other Away: Building Emotional Safety and Lasting Connection
In marriages, emotional distance often starts subtly with misunderstandings and criticism rather …
How a Husband Can Push His Wife Away: Understanding Relational Patterns That Create Distance
Emotional distance in marriage rarely appears overnight. It develops gradually through repeated …
How a Wife Can Push Her Husband Away: Understanding Relational Patterns That Create Distance
Marriage rarely collapses in a single dramatic moment. More often, it erodes …
How Does a Man See Value in a Woman in Today’s Society?
In today’s society, many men feel pulled between two different “value systems” …
Qualities a Christian Woman Should Look for in a Man
Choosing a life partner is a pivotal decision for any Christian woman, …
Qualities a Christian Man Should Look for in a Woman
Choosing a life partner is a pivotal decision, especially for Christian men, …
Why She Doesn’t Want You to “Fix” It When She Vents
Feeling overwhelmed by helping your partner? You're not alone! Many men struggle …
Why Your Man Tries to “Fix” Things When You Vent
Have you ever shared a bad day with your partner and felt …
Husbands, What Does It Mean to “Show Up” for Your Wife?
Being present for your wife is about consistent actions, not grand gestures. …
When I Feel Unheard: A Wife’s Perspective on Parenting and Partnership
In marriage, the silent struggle for voice and value often goes unheard. …
When Parents Pull in Different Directions: How Conflict Affects Marriage and Children
Every family has disagreements. That is normal. But when parents constantly clash …

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