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A Man Can Feel Alone in a House Full of His Wife and Children

At first glance, a man surrounded by his wife and children appears to have everything a person could need—love, companionship, and purpose. From the outside, his home may look warm and full of life. Laughter echoes in the living room, children run through the hallways, and family dinners happen around the kitchen table. Yet, beneath the surface, many men quietly experience a profound loneliness that few people recognize or talk about.

This kind of loneliness is not about physical isolation. It is emotional isolation. A man can sit at the dinner table with his entire family and still feel like no one truly sees him.

The Silent Burden Many Men Carry

Research suggests that men often experience emotional isolation differently than women. Due to cultural expectations surrounding masculinity, many men are socialized to suppress vulnerability and emotional expression (Mahalik et al., 2003). From a young age, boys are frequently taught messages such as “be strong,” “don’t cry,” and “handle it yourself.”

Over time, these messages can create emotional barriers that follow men into adulthood. When difficulties arise—stress at work, fears about providing for the family, health concerns, or relationship struggles—many men struggle to communicate what they are feeling.

Instead of talking, they often internalize their worries.

In a house full of people, the man may be the one carrying the invisible weight of responsibility. He worries about bills, the future of his children, the stability of the marriage, and his own ability to keep everything together. Yet he rarely speaks these concerns out loud.

When Roles Replace Relationships

Marriage and parenthood come with roles. A husband is expected to provide, protect, lead, fix problems, and remain steady during chaos. A father is expected to guide, discipline, teach, and support his children.

These roles are important and meaningful. However, sometimes the roles begin to replace the relationship.

Instead of being seen as a person with emotions, fears, and dreams, a man may begin to feel like he is simply the family’s problem solver.

He becomes:

• the one who fixes broken things

• the one who pays the bills

• the one who works late

• the one who stays calm when everyone else is upset

While these responsibilities are honorable, they can also create emotional distance if no one stops to ask the man how he is doing.

Over time, a man may begin to feel like he exists primarily to serve the needs of everyone else in the house.

The Loneliness of Being the Strong One

Many men carry the expectation that they must always be the strong one. Strength becomes their identity.

But strength without emotional connection can become exhausting.

A husband may comfort his wife when she is upset.

A father may support his children through their struggles.

A provider may work tirelessly to give his family stability.

Yet when he faces his own fears or sadness, he may not feel that there is space for him to share those emotions.

Studies show that men are less likely than women to seek emotional support or talk openly about distress (Addis & Mahalik, 2003). Instead, they may withdraw, become quiet, or bury themselves in work, hobbies, or distractions.

Unfortunately, this withdrawal can create a cycle: the more silent he becomes, the less others realize he is struggling.

Feeling Unseen

One of the most painful forms of loneliness is feeling unseen.

A man may watch his wife interact warmly with the children, managing schedules, emotions, and household needs. He may appreciate her deeply. But at the same time, he may wonder if anyone notices the quiet sacrifices he makes.

The early mornings.

The late nights.

The constant pressure to hold everything together.

He may never say these thoughts aloud. Instead, he smiles, nods, and continues doing what he believes a husband and father should do.

Yet internally, he may long for someone to ask him a simple question:

“Are you okay?”

Emotional Connection Matters for Men Too

Contrary to stereotypes, men need emotional connection just as much as women do. Research on relationships consistently shows that emotional intimacy—feeling understood, valued, and respected—is a major factor in marital satisfaction for both partners (Gottman & Silver, 2015).

For many men, feeling appreciated and respected can be deeply meaningful. Small gestures from a spouse—acknowledging his efforts, expressing gratitude, listening when he speaks—can significantly reduce feelings of loneliness.

Likewise, when fathers feel emotionally connected to their children, it strengthens both the family unit and their own sense of purpose.

The issue is not that men do not want connection. Often, they simply do not know how to ask for it.

Breaking the Silence

Loneliness within marriage and family is not inevitable. It can be addressed when families intentionally create space for honest communication.

This may involve:

• asking each other meaningful questions

• expressing appreciation regularly

• making time for conversations beyond logistics and responsibilities

• allowing vulnerability without judgment

For men, learning to express emotions can be challenging but incredibly important. Sharing fears, frustrations, or sadness does not make a man weak—it makes him human.

For partners and families, recognizing that even the strongest person in the house needs encouragement and understanding can transform relationships.

Conclusion

A house can be full of people and still contain loneliness.

For many men, the role of husband and father is deeply meaningful, but it can also come with silent emotional burdens. When those burdens remain unspoken and unnoticed, a man may begin to feel invisible—even among the people he loves most.

The solution is not complicated, but it requires intention: conversation, appreciation, and emotional presence.

Sometimes the strongest man in the house is simply waiting for someone to notice that he, too, needs to be seen.

About the Author

John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW, is a behavioral health therapist and writer from London, Kentucky. With years of experience working with individuals and families, he focuses on emotional wellness, relationships, and personal growth. His work often explores the silent struggles people face in relationships and encourages open conversations that lead to healing and stronger connections.

References

Addis, M. E., & Mahalik, J. R. (2003). Men, masculinity, and the contexts of help seeking. American Psychologist, 58(1), 5–14.

Gottman, J., & Silver, N. (2015). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Harmony Books.

Mahalik, J. R., Burns, S. M., & Syzdek, M. (2003). Masculinity and perceived normative health behaviors as predictors of men’s health behaviors. Social Science & Medicine, 64(11), 2201–2209.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder in Soldiers: Understanding, Effects, and Treatment

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that has long affected soldiers and military personnel, often impacting their lives in profound ways. According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, up to 20% of veterans who served in Iraq and Afghanistan experience PTSD, underscoring the prevalence of this condition among soldiers who endure the harsh realities of combat and warfare. This article explores the causes, symptoms, and effects of PTSD in soldiers, examines various treatment options, and discusses emerging approaches to care.

Causes of PTSD in Soldiers

PTSD is generally triggered by exposure to traumatic events. For soldiers, combat is a primary source of trauma, involving life-threatening situations, witnessing injury or death, and enduring extreme physical and emotional stress. Studies have found that prolonged and repeated exposure to combat conditions increases the risk of PTSD, particularly if soldiers are subjected to high levels of intensity and frequency of traumatic events (American Psychological Association, 2020). Further risk factors include military rank, training, and support systems, with enlisted personnel and those lacking robust support networks being more vulnerable (Gradus, 2023).

The severity of PTSD symptoms often varies based on the intensity and nature of the traumatic events experienced. For instance, individuals who encounter close combat situations or who witness the death of comrades are more likely to develop severe PTSD symptoms (Hoge et al., 2004).

Symptoms of PTSD in Soldiers

PTSD symptoms are generally grouped into four categories:

  1. Intrusive Thoughts: Soldiers with PTSD often experience unwanted, distressing memories or flashbacks of traumatic events, causing them to relive the traumatic moment repeatedly.
  2. Avoidance: Avoiding situations, people, or places that remind the individual of the trauma is a common coping mechanism. Soldiers might withdraw from social settings or avoid seeking help.
  3. Negative Changes in Thought and Mood: Symptoms may include persistent negative emotions, distorted beliefs about oneself or others, and a feeling of detachment from family and friends.
  4. Hyperarousal and Reactivity: PTSD often causes soldiers to experience heightened anxiety, irritability, or hypervigilance. They may have difficulty sleeping and feel constantly on edge (National Institute of Mental Health, 2021).

In military contexts, PTSD can lead to significant challenges in social and family relationships, making reintegration into civilian life difficult. Soldiers may experience guilt over actions taken or not taken in combat, known as moral injury, which exacerbates the symptoms of PTSD (Litz et al., 2009).

Effects of PTSD on Soldiers’ Lives

PTSD can have a severe impact on veterans’ physical, mental, and emotional well-being, with potential long-term consequences that affect not only the individual but also their families and communities. Some of the major effects include:

  • Depression and Anxiety: Soldiers with PTSD often experience comorbid depression and anxiety, which can further complicate their recovery. The stress and trauma they face in combat environments have lasting effects that increase susceptibility to these conditions.
  • Substance Abuse: To cope with symptoms, many veterans turn to alcohol or drugs, which often results in dependency issues. Research has shown that PTSD and substance use disorders are closely linked in military populations, with soldiers attempting to self-medicate to alleviate PTSD symptoms (Seal et al., 2011).
  • Suicidal Ideation and Attempts: PTSD is a significant risk factor for suicide among veterans, with some studies indicating that the risk of suicide is higher among those with PTSD than the general population (Kang et al., 2015).
  • Difficulties in Employment and Social Reintegration: Veterans with PTSD may struggle to find and maintain stable employment due to symptoms such as hyperarousal, anxiety, and avoidance, impacting their social and economic well-being. Reintegration challenges, compounded by stigmatization of mental health issues, further isolate veterans from support systems that could aid in their recovery.

Treatment Options for PTSD in Soldiers

A wide range of treatment options is available for soldiers with PTSD. The goal of these treatments is not only to alleviate symptoms but to enable veterans to lead fulfilling lives after service. Treatments can be broadly categorized into:

  1. Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy, particularly Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), are among the most effective treatments for PTSD. CBT helps patients process and alter their trauma-related thoughts and behaviors, while EMDR helps in processing traumatic memories by stimulating the brain’s natural healing process (Watkins et al., 2018).
  2. Pharmacotherapy: Antidepressants like selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly prescribed for PTSD, as they help manage symptoms of anxiety and depression. Medication, however, is often used alongside psychotherapy rather than as a standalone treatment (VA/DoD Clinical Practice Guideline, 2017).
  3. Group Therapy and Support Groups: These provide veterans with a community that understands their experiences, fostering a support system that can help them cope with the effects of trauma. Research indicates that group therapy is particularly beneficial for soldiers, as it promotes shared understanding and mutual support (Browne et al., 2016).
  4. Emerging Treatments: New therapies, such as virtual reality exposure therapy (VRET) and MDMA-assisted psychotherapy, have shown promising results. VRET immerses patients in a controlled, simulated environment to help them confront and process traumatic experiences. MDMA-assisted therapy, under clinical investigation, has demonstrated significant reductions in PTSD symptoms in early trials (Mithoefer et al., 2018).

Challenges in Addressing PTSD in Military Contexts

Despite available treatments, several challenges remain in addressing PTSD among soldiers. A significant barrier is stigma—many military personnel fear seeking help for PTSD due to concerns about appearing weak or unfit for duty. Additionally, the military structure can sometimes be resistant to mental health care initiatives, emphasizing resilience and self-reliance over seeking assistance. Efforts are ongoing to destigmatize PTSD and encourage open discussions about mental health in military settings (Hoge et al., 2004).

Accessibility of mental health services is another issue. Many veterans live in rural areas with limited access to specialized PTSD treatments. Telemedicine has been identified as a potential solution, offering remote therapy sessions that improve access for veterans in underserved areas (Rosen et al., 2017).

Conclusion

PTSD remains a significant mental health concern for soldiers, with far-reaching impacts on individuals, families, and communities. The military context poses unique challenges for both the onset and treatment of PTSD, underscoring the need for continued research, awareness, and innovation in treatment options. By addressing stigma and improving access to mental health care, society can better support veterans in managing PTSD and lead them toward healthier, more fulfilling lives post-service.

This article was written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier has over 25 years of experience in the Social Work field. He currently serves as the Executive Director and Outpatient provider for Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health based out of London Kentucky. He may be reached at (606) 657-0532 extension 101 or by email at john@sekybh.com

References

  • American Psychological Association. (2020). PTSD and the Military. Retrieved from APA.org.
  • Gradus, J. (2023). PTSD in Military Veterans. VA National Center for PTSD. Retrieved from PTSD.va.gov.
  • Hoge, C. W., et al. (2004). Combat Duty in Iraq and Afghanistan, Mental Health Problems, and Barriers to Care. The New England Journal of Medicine, 351(1), 13-22.
  • Kang, H. K., et al. (2015). Association of PTSD with increased suicide risk among veterans. Journal of Military Medicine, 180(9), 982-989.
  • Litz, B. T., et al. (2009). Moral injury and moral repair in war veterans: A preliminary model and intervention strategy. Clinical Psychology Review, 29(8), 695-706.
  • Mithoefer, M. C., et al. (2018). MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD: A breakthrough therapy. Journal of Psychopharmacology, 32(1), 4-12.
  • National Institute of Mental Health. (2021). Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Retrieved from NIMH.nih.gov.
  • Rosen, C. S., et al. (2017). Telemedicine for PTSD: A review of clinical evidence and practice. Telemedicine and e-Health, 23(3), 192-202.
  • Seal, K. H., et al. (2011). Substance use disorders in Iraq and Afghanistan veterans. Journal of Addiction Medicine, 5(1), 5-10.
  • VA/DoD Clinical Practice Guideline. (2017). Management of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Acute Stress Reaction. Department of Veterans Affairs.
Did you Lose Yourself in your Marriage?

Marriage is often seen as a union of two individuals who merge their lives, goals, and values. While this partnership requires compromise, trust, and mutual support, there is a risk of losing one’s personal identity in the process. Losing oneself in a marriage refers to the tendency to prioritize the relationship at the expense of individual identity, interests, and personal development. While the idea of “becoming one” is often romanticized, losing oneself in a marriage can have significant negative consequences for both personal well-being and the relationship itself.

The Concept of Losing Yourself in Marriage

To lose oneself in a marriage means that an individual’s personal identity becomes submerged in the identity of the couple. This can manifest in giving up personal hobbies, values, friendships, or ambitions for the sake of maintaining the relationship. While compromise is an essential part of any marriage, consistently abandoning one’s personal interests and values can lead to feelings of disconnection, resentment, and dissatisfaction over time (Aron & Aron, 2001).

Researchers have explored the psychological phenomenon of “relationship enmeshment,” which occurs when boundaries between partners become blurred, and one partner’s identity is overtaken by the couple’s shared identity (Cramer, 2003). While it’s normal for couples to grow together and make sacrifices for one another, maintaining individual autonomy is equally important for long-term happiness and mental health.

Negative Consequences of Losing Yourself in Marriage

Losing oneself in a marriage can result in several adverse effects, both on an individual level and within the relationship itself.

  1. Loss of Personal Fulfillment: When a person consistently prioritizes their spouse’s needs and interests over their own, they may begin to lose touch with the things that once brought them personal joy and satisfaction (Miller, 2019). Over time, this can lead to feelings of emptiness, as the individual may feel they have lost their sense of purpose outside the marriage.
  2. Emotional Burnout and Resentment: Constantly putting the relationship above one’s own needs can lead to emotional exhaustion. This can result in feelings of resentment towards the spouse, as the individual may feel that they have sacrificed too much for the relationship (Waller & McLanahan, 2005). This, in turn, can create tension within the marriage, as unresolved feelings of resentment and burnout may lead to conflict.
  3. Imbalanced Power Dynamics: In cases where one partner continually prioritizes the other, an imbalanced power dynamic can emerge. The partner who has lost themselves may feel powerless or dependent on their spouse, while the other partner may unknowingly become the dominant figure in the relationship (Anderson & Chen, 2002). This imbalance can create long-term strain on the relationship, as both partners may struggle to navigate the power dynamic.
  4. Increased Risk of Codependency: Losing oneself in a marriage can also contribute to codependency, a situation where one partner becomes overly reliant on the other for emotional support and self-worth. Codependency can limit personal growth, independence, and self-sufficiency, making the individual feel trapped within the relationship (Hendrick & Hendrick, 2006). This can further erode the quality of the marriage, as both partners may struggle with the limitations that codependency imposes.

Why It’s Important to Maintain Individuality in Marriage

Maintaining individuality within a marriage is not only beneficial for personal well-being but also for the health of the relationship. When both partners have their own identities, interests, and friendships, they are more likely to experience personal fulfillment, which can positively impact the marriage. Here are a few reasons why individuality is crucial:

  1. Promotes Personal Growth: Maintaining one’s own hobbies, ambitions, and social connections outside of the marriage allows for continued personal growth. When individuals have space to grow independently, they bring new perspectives and experiences back to the relationship, enriching the partnership as a whole (Aron & Aron, 2001).
  2. Encourages Healthy Boundaries: Healthy marriages thrive on mutual respect and understanding. Setting and maintaining personal boundaries can help ensure that both partners feel valued and respected in the relationship. This allows for a balance of independence and togetherness, preventing the suffocation that often comes with losing oneself in the marriage (Cramer, 2003).
  3. Fosters Emotional Stability: When individuals maintain a sense of self outside of the relationship, they are less likely to become emotionally dependent on their spouse. This fosters emotional stability, as each partner feels confident and secure in their own identity (Sprecher & Felmlee, 1992). Emotional stability contributes to a healthier and more balanced relationship dynamic, where both partners support each other’s individual growth.

How to Prevent Losing Yourself in Marriage

To avoid losing oneself in marriage, it is essential to establish and maintain boundaries, communicate openly with your partner, and prioritize self-care. Here are some practical steps to ensure a healthy balance between individuality and partnership:

  1. Prioritize Personal Hobbies and Interests: It is important to continue pursuing personal hobbies and interests, even after getting married. Engaging in activities that bring personal fulfillment allows individuals to maintain a sense of self (Waller & McLanahan, 2005). Additionally, this can help prevent feelings of boredom or stagnation within the marriage.
  2. Foster Open Communication: Having honest conversations with your partner about personal needs, boundaries, and concerns is essential. Open communication helps prevent misunderstandings and ensures that both partners feel heard and respected (Hendrick & Hendrick, 2006).
  3. Maintain Relationships Outside of the Marriage: Cultivating friendships and maintaining relationships with family members outside the marriage is vital. These connections provide emotional support and offer different perspectives, helping to prevent isolation within the marriage (Miller, 2019).
  4. Reflect on Personal Goals: Take time to regularly reflect on personal goals, values, and aspirations. This helps ensure that personal ambitions are not lost in the pursuit of relationship harmony (Aron & Aron, 2001).

Conclusion

While marriage is a deeply rewarding partnership, it is important to avoid losing oneself in the relationship. Maintaining individuality, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering open communication can help ensure that both partners thrive both individually and as a couple. By balancing personal growth with marital commitment, individuals can experience greater fulfillment, emotional stability, and long-term relationship satisfaction.

This article has been written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier has over 25 years in the social work field. He currently serves as the executive director and provider within Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health based out of London Kentucky. He may be reached at 6066570532 or by email at john@sekybh.com.

References

Anderson, S. M., & Chen, S. (2002). The relational self: An interpersonal social-cognitive theory. Psychological Review, 109(4), 619–645. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-295X.109.4.619

Aron, A., & Aron, E. N. (2001). Self-expansion model of motivation and cognition in close relationships and beyond. Handbook of Motivation and Cognition Within Close Relationships, 63–84.

Cramer, D. (2003). Perceived respect for privacy, need for independence, and personal well-being in close relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 20(2), 253–271. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407503020002005

Hendrick, S. S., & Hendrick, C. (2006). Close relationships: A sourcebook. Sage Publications.

Miller, K. (2019). Boundaries in relationships: The key to maintaining intimacy and trust. Healthy Connections Press.

Sprecher, S., & Felmlee, D. (1992). The influence of self-disclosure on liking: Separate meta-analyses for men and women. Psychological Bulletin, 112(3), 487-492.

Waller, M. R., & McLanahan, S. (2005). “His” and “Her” marriage expectations: Determinants and consequences. Journal of Marriage and Family, 67(1), 53-67.

Why Your Marriage Should Be a Priority Over Your Children

In the modern world, many parents feel a constant pressure to focus all their time and energy on their children. While raising healthy, well-adjusted children is undoubtedly important, prioritizing your marriage is equally crucial. A strong marital relationship creates a stable foundation for your family, benefits your children in the long run, and contributes to personal fulfillment. This article explores why it’s essential to put your marriage first, supported by research and expert insights.

1. A Strong Marriage Provides a Stable Foundation for the Family

A healthy and stable marriage is the cornerstone of a thriving family. When parents have a strong, supportive relationship, they create an environment of emotional security for their children. Children benefit from witnessing a loving, respectful partnership because it models healthy relationship dynamics that they will carry into their own lives.

Research published in The Journal of Marriage and Family found that children whose parents maintain a strong relationship experience fewer behavioral and emotional problems (Amato, 2005). A stable marital bond creates a sense of safety and security, enabling children to feel more grounded. In contrast, when a marriage is neglected or becomes strained, children are more likely to experience anxiety, insecurity, and emotional instability.

By prioritizing your marriage, you’re investing in the well-being of the entire family unit.

2. Children Benefit from Witnessing Healthy Relationships

Children learn how to navigate relationships by observing their parents. By demonstrating love, respect, and teamwork in your marriage, you provide your children with a positive model for future relationships. This sets them up to build healthy partnerships later in life.

Dr. John Gottman, a renowned relationship researcher, emphasizes that children who observe their parents resolving conflicts with respect and cooperation tend to develop better problem-solving skills in their own relationships (Gottman & Silver, 1999). When your children see that you prioritize time together, communicate openly, and demonstrate affection, they learn valuable lessons about what it means to have a supportive, loving relationship.

Moreover, prioritizing your marriage helps create a positive family culture, where your children feel comfortable and learn important emotional skills like empathy, compromise, and communication.

3. Maintaining a Happy Marriage Helps Prevent Parental Burnout

Parenting is demanding, and when the focus is entirely on children, parents can experience burnout. This can lead to stress, exhaustion, and even resentment, which ultimately affects both the marriage and the parent-child relationship. By making your marriage a priority, you ensure that you and your partner maintain a strong emotional connection, which helps buffer the stress of parenting.

A study published in Family Relations found that when parents prioritize their relationship, they report greater personal well-being, less stress, and more satisfaction in both their marriage and their role as parents (Kluwer, 2010). This improved well-being translates into more energy and patience for parenting, allowing you to be more present and engaged with your children.

Taking time to nurture your marriage—whether through regular date nights, shared hobbies, or simply having uninterrupted conversations—helps you recharge emotionally and prevents burnout, making you a better partner and parent.

4. Prioritizing Your Marriage Promotes Long-Term Family Stability

Children grow up and eventually leave the home, but your marriage is meant to last a lifetime. Prioritizing your marriage not only enhances your connection in the present but also ensures that you have a strong partnership when the children are grown and out of the house.

Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, argues that parents who maintain a strong marital bond throughout the child-rearing years are more likely to experience long-term satisfaction in their marriage once their children become independent (Chapman, 1995). When couples neglect their marriage in favor of focusing exclusively on their children, they often find themselves disconnected once the children leave, leading to what’s commonly known as “empty nest syndrome.”

By keeping your marriage strong, you’re building a relationship that can thrive beyond the parenting years, allowing you and your partner to enjoy life together for many years to come.

5. A Strong Marriage Teaches Children That Relationships Take Work

When children see that you prioritize your marriage, they learn that relationships require effort, commitment, and time. They come to understand that maintaining a healthy marriage involves not only love and affection but also patience, communication, and mutual support. This is an important lesson for children as they grow and develop their own understanding of relationships.

A study in The Journal of Family Psychology found that children who grow up in homes where parents invest time in their marriage are more likely to have successful relationships as adults (Cui & Fincham, 2010). These children are better equipped to handle conflicts, express their emotions, and communicate effectively with their future partners.

By making your marriage a priority, you’re giving your children a powerful example of how to cultivate a loving, respectful relationship, which they can carry with them into adulthood.

Conclusion

While it may seem counterintuitive to put your marriage before your children, doing so creates a strong, stable foundation for your family. A happy, healthy marriage benefits your children by providing them with emotional security, modeling positive relationship dynamics, and teaching them important life skills. Moreover, by prioritizing your relationship, you prevent parental burnout, enhance long-term family stability, and ensure that your partnership will thrive even after the children leave the nest.

Balancing the demands of marriage and parenting can be challenging, but making your relationship a priority benefits everyone in the family, including your children. Ultimately, the best gift you can give your children is the example of a loving, committed partnership.

This article was written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. John has over 25 years experience in the social work. John currently serves as the executive Director and provider within Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health based out of London Kentucky. He may be reached at 606-657-0532 extension 101 or by email john@sekybh.com

References

• Amato, P. R. (2005). The Impact of Family Formation Change on the Cognitive, Social, and Emotional Well-Being of the Next Generation. The Journal of Marriage and Family, 67(4), 911-926.

• Chapman, G. (1995). The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Northfield Publishing.

• Cui, M., & Fincham, F. D. (2010). The Differential Effects of Parental Divorce and Marital Conflict on Young Adult Romantic Relationships. Journal of Family Psychology, 24(4), 456-465.

• Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Three Rivers Press.

• Kluwer, E. S. (2010). From Partnership to Parenthood: A Review of Marital Change Across the Transition to Parenthood. Family Relations, 59(5), 639-652.