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Getting Triggered: Taking Responsibility for Your Reactions

Your Trigger Is Your Responsibility

The phrase“I got triggered” has become increasingly common in modern conversations. People use it to describe intense emotional reactions to something another person said, did, or failed to do. While emotional triggers are real and deserve attention, there is an important truth that is often overlooked: your emotional trigger is your responsibility, not someone else’s.

This does not mean other people are always right, kind, or considerate. It does not mean hurtful behavior should be excused. Rather, it means that while external events may activate an emotional response, you remain responsible for how you interpret, manage, and respond to that reaction.

Emotional triggers are often connected to unresolved experiences, personal beliefs, fears, insecurities, past trauma, or deeply held expectations. According to the Cleveland Clinic, emotional triggers are situations, events, thoughts, or interactions that provoke intense emotional reactions that may be disproportionate to the present event because they are connected to past experiences. [health.cle…clinic.org]

A trigger is not proof that someone else caused your emotions. Instead, it is often evidence that something within you requires examination, healing, or growth.

Understanding the Difference Between Cause and Responsibility

A useful distinction exists between cause and responsibility.

Someone may say something rude. That statement may act as a catalyst for anger. However, the emotional reaction that follows belongs to the individual experiencing it.

Many people spend years blaming family members, coworkers, former partners, friends, or society for their emotional pain. While others may influence our experiences, remaining trapped in blame often prevents healing.

When responsibility is surrendered, personal power is surrendered as well.

Consider these examples:

  • Someone criticizes your work, and you become enraged.
  • A friend does not text back quickly, and you become anxious.
  • A spouse disagrees with you, and you immediately become defensive.
  • A coworker receives recognition, and you become resentful.

The external event occurred. However, the intensity of the emotional response often reflects an internal issue that deserves attention.

As psychologist Susan Albers notes, emotional triggers often function as “knee-jerk reactions” connected to prior emotional wounds, pain, or stressful experiences rather than the present situation alone. [health.cle…clinic.org]

Why Blaming Others Keeps You Stuck

Blame can feel empowering in the moment because it removes responsibility from ourselves. Unfortunately, it also removes our ability to create lasting change.

When your happiness depends on other people changing, you remain powerless. When your peace depends on others behaving perfectly, you remain trapped. When your emotional well-being depends upon controlling the behavior of everyone around you, you are fighting a battle you cannot win. Personal accountability allows you to move from:

  • Victimhood to ownership
  • Reactivity to intentionality
  • Resentment to growth
  • Helplessness to empowerment

Self-awareness is a foundational component of emotional intelligence. Research and psychological theory indicate that self-awareness helps individuals recognize emotions, understand behavioral patterns, and make more intentional choices. [positiveps…hology.com], [dictionary.apa.org]

Signs That You May Be Operating From a Trigger

You may be reacting from a trigger when:

  • Your emotional response feels much larger than the event itself.
  • You repeatedly experience the same conflicts.
  • You immediately become defensive.
  • You struggle to calm yourself after an interaction.
  • You replay conversations repeatedly in your mind.
  • You frequently blame others for how you feel.
  • You find yourself saying things you later regret.

Recognizing these signs is not a reason for shame. It is an opportunity for growth.

Eight Steps to Take Ownership of Your Triggers

1. Pause Before Reacting

Strong emotions create urgency. Triggers often convince us that immediate action is necessary.

Instead:

  • Stop.
  • Take several deep breaths.
  • Create distance between feeling and action.

Even a brief pause allows the thinking parts of the brain to engage before impulsive behavior occurs. Naming and observing emotions can strengthen emotional regulation and reduce reactivity. [apa.org], [scienceinsights.org]

2. Identify What You Are Feeling

Many people only recognize anger.

However, underneath anger may be:

  • Fear
  • Shame
  • Rejection
  • Insecurity
  • Embarrassment
  • Loneliness
  • Disappointment

Ask yourself:

“What am I actually feeling right now?”

Awareness creates choice.

3. Ask, “Why Does This Affect Me So Strongly?”

Instead of focusing on the other person’s behavior, focus inward.

Questions to consider:

  • What belief was activated?
  • What fear was touched?
  • What memory does this remind me of?
  • Why does this matter so much to me?

This shift transforms the experience from blame to self-discovery.

4. Separate Facts From Stories

The event and the story you tell yourself about the event are not the same thing.

Example:

Fact: Someone interrupted you.

Story: They do not respect me.

The emotional reaction usually attaches itself to the story, not merely the event. Challenge assumptions and consider alternative explanations before reacting.

5. Own Your Emotional Experience

Practice saying:

  • “I feel hurt.”
  • “I feel anxious.”
  • “I feel angry.”
  • “I am responsible for how I respond.”

Avoid statements such as:

  • “You made me angry.”
  • “You ruined my day.”
  • “You caused my anxiety.”

Others influence us, but they do not control our responses.

6. Develop Healthy Coping Skills

The National Institutes of Health recommends evidence-based wellness practices that help individuals manage emotional stress and build resilience, including mindfulness, physical activity, social support, adequate sleep, gratitude practices, and healthy self-care routines. [nih.gov], [nimh.nih.gov]

Helpful coping strategies include:

MindfulnessLearn to observe emotions without immediately reacting.
Deep BreathingSlow breathing helps calm the body’s stress response.
JournalingWriting allows emotions to be processed instead of suppressed.
ExercisePhysical activity helps regulate mood and reduce stress.
MeditationMeditation increases emotional awareness and self-control.
TherapyProfessional support can help uncover deeper emotional patterns.
Social SupportHealthy relationships provide perspective and encouragement. [apa.org], [nih.gov]

7. Reframe the Trigger as a Teacher

Instead of asking: “Why did they do this to me?”

Ask: “What is this reaction teaching me about myself?”

Every trigger contains information. It may point toward:

  • An insecurity
  • An unmet need
  • A fear
  • A limiting belief
  • An unresolved wound

Growth begins when curiosity replaces blame.

8. Practice Accountability Daily

Accountability is a skill. Each day ask yourself:

  • What triggered me today?
  • How did I respond?
  • What could I have done differently?
  • What lesson did I learn?

Over time these reflections strengthen emotional resilience and self-awareness.

Conclusion

Being triggered is part of the human experience. Everyone encounters situations that evoke strong emotions. The presence of a trigger is not a character flaw, nor is it proof that someone else is responsible for your emotional state. Healing begins when we stop viewing triggers as evidence of other people’s failures and start viewing them as opportunities for self-examination and growth.

You may not be responsible for every experience that shaped you, but you are responsible for how you manage your reactions today. The moment you stop blaming others for your triggers is the moment you begin reclaiming your power. You are not responsible for what happened to you in the past. You are responsible for what you do with it now. Growth occurs when accountability becomes stronger than blame, and self-awareness becomes stronger than reactivity.

About the Author

John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW-S Executive Director | Clinical Social Worker | Community Advocate For more than two decades, John S. Collier has dedicated his career to strengthening individuals, families, and communities through compassionate behavioral healthcare, leadership, and advocacy. As the founder and Executive Director of Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health, LLC, he has played a significant role in expanding access to mental health, case management, and community-based support services throughout Eastern Kentucky. A graduate of the University of Kentucky College of Social Work, Mr. Collier earned his Master of Social Work degree in 2004 and subsequently became a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the Commonwealth of Kentucky. Throughout his career, he has remained committed to serving individuals across the lifespan, including children, adolescents, adults, older adults, couples, and families. Professional Leadership As Executive Director of Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health, Mr. Collier oversees a growing multidisciplinary behavioral health organization providing outpatient therapy, targeted case management, positive behavior support services, and community-based supports. He also maintains clinical and supervisory responsibilities, serving in multiple leadership and professional capacities within the organization, including clinical supervision, positive behavior support, staff development, program development, and community outreach. His professional work includes: Clinical psychotherapy and behavioral health treatment Positive Behavior Support planning and consultation Clinical supervision and staff development Community mental health advocacy Program development and organizational leadership Behavioral assessment and intervention planning Service coordination for individuals with complex behavioral and developmental needs Clinical Philosophy Mr. Collier’s clinical philosophy centers on treating the whole person rather than merely addressing symptoms. He utilizes evidence-based approaches while emphasizing dignity, respect, empowerment, and individualized treatment planning. His work incorporates cognitive-behavioral principles, trauma-informed care, person-centered planning, family involvement, and strengths-based interventions designed to help individuals reach their fullest potential. He is particularly passionate about increasing access to behavioral healthcare in rural communities and ensuring individuals receive services that are practical, meaningful, and tailored to their unique strengths and needs. Community Involvement Beyond his clinical work, Mr. Collier has demonstrated a strong commitment to community engagement throughout his career. His efforts have included public education, outreach initiatives, advocacy for mental health awareness, and collaboration with schools, healthcare providers, and community organizations. He believes strong communities are built when mental health services are accessible, stigma is reduced, and individuals are empowered to succeed. Author, Educator, and Advocate In addition to his clinical and leadership roles, Mr. Collier has contributed to professional and community discussions through writing and education. Publicly available information indicates that he has been a published author in areas related to mental health, Freemasonry, and poetry. His work reflects a commitment to personal growth, community service, and the advancement of behavioral health knowledge. Personal Values Throughout his professional journey, Mr. Collier has remained grounded in the core values of social work: service, integrity, competence, dignity and worth of every person, the importance of human relationships, and social justice. Colleagues, clients, and community partners know him for his commitment to helping others achieve meaningful and lasting change while fostering an environment of compassion, respect, and accountability. This dedication continues to guide both his leadership and clinical practice today. Contact Information Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health, LLC 202 West 7th Street Suite 200 London, Kentucky 40741 Phone: (606) 657-0532 Ext. 101

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Being Intentional and Productive During Divorce Recovery

Divorce is not merely a legal process; it is a profound psychological, emotional, and identity-based transition. Research consistently shows that divorce ranks among the most stressful life events, often comparable to bereavement or serious illness (Holmes & Rahe, 1967). While the pain of divorce is unavoidable, prolonged suffering is not inevitable. Recovery becomes more adaptive—and ultimately more healing—when individuals approach this season with intentionality and purpose rather than avoidance or emotional paralysis.

Understanding Divorce as a Transition, Not a Failure

One of the most significant barriers to recovery is the tendency to frame divorce solely as a personal failure. This narrative fuels shame, rumination, and identity collapse. Contemporary psychological models instead conceptualize divorce as a life transition that disrupts routines, roles, and attachment bonds (Amato, 2010). When individuals reframe divorce as a transition requiring adjustment—not a verdict on their worth—they are better positioned to engage in productive healing behaviors.

Intentional recovery begins with acknowledging loss while resisting the urge to remain psychologically anchored in the past. This balance allows grief to be processed without becoming one’s permanent emotional residence.

The Role of Intentionality in Emotional Healing

Intentionality refers to making deliberate, values-driven choices rather than reacting solely to emotional distress. Following divorce, emotions often fluctuate rapidly—anger, sadness, relief, fear, and loneliness may coexist. Without intentional structure, individuals may default to maladaptive coping strategies such as isolation, substance use, rebound relationships, or excessive rumination (Sbarra & Emery, 2005).

Intentional recovery involves:

  • Setting boundaries with the former spouse
  • Creating predictable daily routines
  • Choosing behaviors aligned with long-term well-being rather than short-term relief

Research on self-regulation and coping demonstrates that purposeful goal-setting during periods of stress improves emotional stability and resilience (Baumeister & Vohs, 2007).

Productivity as a Stabilizing Force

Productivity during divorce recovery does not mean relentless busyness or emotional suppression. Instead, it involves engaging in meaningful activities that restore a sense of competence, agency, and identity. Studies indicate that mastery-oriented activities—such as learning new skills, maintaining employment, or pursuing health goals—can counteract the helplessness often experienced after relational loss (Bandura, 1997).

Productive behaviors that support recovery include:

  • Rebuilding physical health through exercise and sleep hygiene
  • Establishing financial literacy and independence
  • Engaging in purposeful work or service
  • Developing new personal or professional goals

These actions help regulate mood, rebuild confidence, and create forward momentum during a time that often feels stagnant.

Reconstructing Identity After Divorce

Divorce frequently dismantles shared identity—roles such as spouse, partner, or co-parent may change abruptly. Identity reconstruction is a central task of recovery (Hetherington & Kelly, 2002). Intentional individuals actively explore who they are becoming rather than clinging to who they were.

This process may involve reassessing values, redefining boundaries, and clarifying personal beliefs about relationships, trust, and commitment. Therapeutic research shows that individuals who engage in reflective meaning-making following divorce experience greater long-term psychological growth (Tashiro & Frazier, 2003).

Avoiding the Trap of Emotional Avoidance

Productivity must not become a mechanism for emotional avoidance. Suppressing grief or anger often prolongs distress rather than resolving it. Healthy recovery requires alternating between action and reflection—doing the work of daily life while allowing space for emotional processing.

Mindfulness-based and acceptance-oriented approaches emphasize acknowledging pain without allowing it to dictate behavior (Hayes et al., 2006). This balance enables individuals to move forward without denying the emotional reality of their experience.

Being intentional and productive during divorce recovery is not about rushing healing or minimizing loss. It is about choosing to engage with life in ways that foster stability, growth, and self-respect while grief runs its natural course. Divorce changes a person’s life, but it does not have to define the rest of it. Through deliberate choices, meaningful action, and reflective growth, recovery can become not just an ending—but a turning point.

This article was written by John S, Collier, MSW, LCSW-S. Mr. Collier has over 25 years of experience in the Social Work field. He currently serves as the Executive Director and Outpatient Behavioral Health Therapist for Southeast Kentucky Behavioral Health in London Kentucky. He may be reached by phone at (606) 657-0532 and by email at john@sekybh.com.

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Amato, P. R. (2010). Research on divorce: Continuing trends and new developments. Journal of Marriage and Family, 72(3), 650–666. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2010.00723.x

Bandura, A. (1997). Self-efficacy: The exercise of control. New York, NY: Freeman.

Baumeister, R. F., & Vohs, K. D. (2007). Self-regulation, ego depletion, and motivation. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 1(1), 115–128. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1751-9004.2007.00001.x

Hayes, S. C., Luoma, J. B., Bond, F. W., Masuda, A., & Lillis, J. (2006). Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes, and outcomes. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(1), 1–25. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2005.06.006

Hetherington, E. M., & Kelly, J. (2002). For better or for worse: Divorce reconsidered. New York, NY: W. W. Norton & Company.

Holmes, T. H., & Rahe, R. H. (1967). The social readjustment rating scale. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 11(2), 213–218. https://doi.org/10.1016/0022-3999(67)90010-4

Sbarra, D. A., & Emery, R. E. (2005). The emotional sequelae of nonmarital relationship dissolution: Analysis of change and intraindividual variability over time. Personal Relationships, 12(2), 213–232. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1350-4126.2005.00112.x

Tashiro, T., & Frazier, P. (2003). “I’ll never be in a relationship like that again”: Personal growth following romantic relationship breakups. Personal Relationships, 10(1), 113–128. https://doi.org/10.1111/1475-6811.00039

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Telling Your Child “No” Without a Good Explanation

The word “no” is an essential part of parenting, helping children understand boundaries, safety, and appropriate behavior. However, simply saying “no” without offering an explanation can lead to frustration, confusion, and resistance from children. Research in developmental psychology and child behavior suggests that explaining the reasoning behind a “no” can foster better communication, cognitive development, and emotional regulation in children (Grolnick et al., 2007).

This article explores the importance of providing explanations when setting boundaries for children and how this approach can benefit their emotional and cognitive growth.

The Psychology Behind “No”

Children are naturally curious and seek to understand the world around them. When a parent tells a child “no” without an explanation, the child may not grasp the reasoning behind the restriction. This lack of understanding can lead to:

  • Increased frustration and defiance (Baumrind, 1991)
  • Reduced trust in parental guidance (Grusec & Goodnow, 1994)
  • Impaired problem-solving and decision-making skills (Deci & Ryan, 1985)

On the other hand, when parents provide an explanation, it allows the child to process the logic behind the rule, making them more likely to accept and internalize it (Smetana, 2011).

The Benefits of Explaining “No”

1. Encourages Critical Thinking and Decision-Making

Explaining “no” helps children develop reasoning skills. For example, if a child asks to eat candy before dinner, simply saying “no” may lead to frustration. Instead, saying, “We need to eat healthy food first so that your body gets the right nutrients. After dinner, you can have a small treat,” teaches the child about nutrition and decision-making (Piaget, 1952).

2. Reduces Defiance and Power Struggles

Children are more likely to comply when they understand the logic behind a rule. Research on authoritative parenting shows that children raised with explanations and open discussions are less likely to exhibit defiant behaviors than those raised with authoritarian approaches (Baumrind, 1991).

3. Strengthens Parent-Child Relationships

A child who receives explanations for parental decisions feels respected and valued. This approach fosters a stronger, more trusting relationship between parent and child, encouraging open communication and cooperation (Grolnick et al., 2007).

4. Teaches Emotional Regulation and Empathy

When parents explain the reasons behind restrictions, children learn to regulate their emotions and consider others’ perspectives. For example, saying, “You can’t grab that toy from your friend because it will make them sad,” helps a child understand social dynamics and empathy (Hoffman, 2000).

How to Effectively Explain “No”

  1. Be Clear and Age-Appropriate – Tailor explanations to the child’s level of understanding. A toddler may need a simple reason, while an older child can handle more complex explanations.
  2. Keep It Brief and Direct – Avoid over-explaining or lecturing, as young children have short attention spans.
  3. Use Positive Language – Instead of focusing on what the child cannot do, offer alternatives. For example, “You can’t run inside, but you can run outside,” maintains the boundary while redirecting the behavior.
  4. Encourage Questions – Allow children to ask questions about rules, which can further reinforce their understanding.
  5. Be Consistent – Ensure that explanations align with family values and remain consistent across situations.

Telling a child “no” without an explanation can lead to resistance, confusion, and frustration. By providing a rationale, parents help children develop cognitive, emotional, and social skills while fostering a respectful and cooperative relationship. Research supports that authoritative parenting—characterized by warmth, communication, and explanations—produces well-adjusted, independent, and empathetic children (Baumrind, 1991).

As parents, guiding children with reasoning and respect ensures they not only understand boundaries but also learn critical life skills that will benefit them in the long run.

References

  • Baumrind, D. (1991). The influence of parenting style on adolescent competence and substance use. Journal of Early Adolescence, 11(1), 56-95.
  • Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (1985). Intrinsic motivation and self-determination in human behavior. Springer.
  • Grolnick, W. S., Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2007). Autonomy support in parenting: The role of structure. Handbook of Parenting, 1, 97-118.
  • Grusec, J. E., & Goodnow, J. J. (1994). Impact of parental discipline methods on the child’s internalization of values: A reconceptualization of current points of view. Developmental Psychology, 30(1), 4-19.
  • Hoffman, M. L. (2000). Empathy and moral development: Implications for caring and justice. Cambridge University Press.
  • Piaget, J. (1952). The origins of intelligence in children. Norton.
  • Smetana, J. G. (2011). Adolescents, families, and social development: How teens construct their worlds. Wiley.
Social Emotional Learning: A Comprehensive Overview

Social Emotional Learning (SEL) has gained prominence as an integral component of education. Defined by the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL), SEL involves the process of acquiring and applying knowledge, attitudes, and skills to understand and manage emotions, achieve positive goals, demonstrate empathy, establish and maintain relationships, and make responsible decisions (CASEL, 2023).

The growing recognition of SEL stems from its demonstrated impact on students’ academic performance, mental health, and future success. This article delves into the five core components of SEL, its benefits, and the practical implications of integrating SEL into educational systems.

Core Components of Social Emotional Learning

CASEL identifies five core competencies that form the foundation of SEL programs:

1. Self-Awareness: The ability to recognize one’s emotions, thoughts, and values and understand how they influence behavior. Self-awareness also involves accurately assessing personal strengths and weaknesses.

2. Self-Management: Skills related to regulating emotions, setting and achieving goals, and managing stress.

3. Social Awareness: The capacity to empathize with others, appreciate diversity, and understand social norms.

4. Relationship Skills: Abilities to establish and maintain healthy relationships, communicate effectively, and resolve conflicts constructively.

5. Responsible Decision-Making: The process of making ethical and constructive choices about personal and social behavior.

These competencies provide a framework for creating supportive environments where students can thrive both academically and personally.

Benefits of Social Emotional Learning

1. Academic Performance

Research consistently shows that SEL enhances academic outcomes. A meta-analysis of 213 SEL programs revealed an average academic performance gain of 11 percentile points for students participating in SEL programs compared to their peers (Durlak et al., 2011).

2. Behavioral Improvements

SEL reduces behavioral problems such as aggression and disruptive behaviors. Programs that teach emotional regulation and conflict resolution help students respond to challenges more constructively (Jones et al., 2019).

3. Mental Health and Well-Being

Students exposed to SEL demonstrate lower levels of anxiety and depression and higher levels of emotional resilience (Taylor et al., 2017). These programs equip students with coping mechanisms to navigate stress and adversity effectively.

4. Long-Term Success

The skills fostered by SEL extend beyond the classroom. Emotional intelligence, teamwork, and decision-making are essential in the workplace and personal life, leading to higher rates of employment and life satisfaction (Weissberg et al., 2015).

Implementation Strategies for Educators

1. Embedding SEL in Curriculum

SEL can be integrated into daily lessons across subjects by incorporating group discussions, collaborative projects, and reflective writing assignments.

2. Professional Development for Teachers

Training educators to model and teach SEL competencies is critical for program success. Teachers need resources and strategies to address diverse student needs.

3. Family and Community Engagement

Involving families and communities in SEL initiatives ensures consistency in fostering social and emotional skills outside the classroom.

4. Data-Driven Practices

Regular assessment of SEL programs helps educators refine their approaches and demonstrate measurable outcomes.

Challenges and Considerations

While SEL offers numerous benefits, challenges such as lack of funding, teacher resistance, and the need for cultural adaptation must be addressed. Policymakers and educators must prioritize creating equitable SEL programs that consider diverse cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds.

Conclusion

Social Emotional Learning is a vital component of modern education, addressing the holistic development of students. By teaching students to navigate emotions, relationships, and decisions, SEL not only enhances academic success but also equips students with lifelong skills. Future research and policy efforts should focus on scaling SEL initiatives and addressing challenges to ensure all students benefit from these transformative programs.

This article is written by John S. Collier, MSW, LCSW. Mr. Collier has over 25 years experience in the social work field. He currently serves as the executive director and outpatient behavioral health therapist at Southeast Kentucky Behavioral health based out of London Kentucky. He may be reached by phone at 606-657-0532 extension 101 or by email at john@sckybh.com

References

• Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL). (2023). What is SEL? Retrieved from https://casel.org

• Durlak, J. A., Weissberg, R. P., Dymnicki, A. B., Taylor, R. D., & Schellinger, K. B. (2011). The impact of enhancing students’ social and emotional learning: A meta-analysis of school-based universal interventions. Child Development, 82(1), 405-432.

• Jones, S. M., Bailey, R., & Kahn, J. (2019). The science and practice of social and emotional learning: Implications for state policymaking. The Aspen Institute.

• Taylor, R. D., Oberle, E., Durlak, J. A., & Weissberg, R. P. (2017). Promoting positive youth development through school-based social and emotional learning interventions: A meta-analysis of follow-up effects. Child Development, 88(4), 1156-1171.

• Weissberg, R. P., Durlak, J. A., Domitrovich, C. E., & Gullotta, T. P. (2015). Social and emotional learning: Past, present, and future. Handbook of Social and Emotional Learning: Research and Practice, 3-19.

This article underscores the transformative potential of SEL in education and beyond, offering a roadmap for educators, policymakers, and communities to prioritize holistic development.